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C Margery Kempe
Get Scorched!
2009.04.14 00:22:17

Chastity FlameMy new novel CHASTITY FLAME is available as part of the Breathless line. I wanted to share some of the words of praise she has already received.

The fabulous Dana Fredsti AKA Inara Levay gave me a stellar blurb for my forthcoming erotic thriller, Chastity Flame. Dana’s the author of Murder for Hire: The Peruvian Pigeon and (as Inara) Ripping the Bodice. Her work is filled with her singular sense of humour and lots of lively action. She writes:

"Step aside, 007, and make room for Chastity Flame. Ms. Flame outwits, out-spies and definitely out-sexes James Bond in this rollicking, witty and exceptionally well-written erotic spy thriller. If you’re a fan of British media, look for the in-jokes. If you’re not,
there’s more than enough humor, action and hot sex to satisfy any lover of romantic suspense!"

It helps a new writer to get pull quotes from better-known authors. I have been lucky to get a terrific one right off the bat for my thriller novel.  From the lethally charming Phil:

“Chastity Flame is my kind of woman — smart, savvy and always ready for a romp with the guy of her choice. I wish I’d created this character, but in C. Margery Kempe’s capable hands you won’t be disappointed. Erotic and witty, this is a page-turner.”

Philip Nutman
multiple award-nominated author of WET WORK

Thanks Dana & Phil!



Tags: breathless | publication | writing | inspiration | Chastity Flame

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Mal Ross
Inspirational podcasts
2009.03.17 11:30:10
My primary writing genre is nonfiction erotica, with an emphasis on group play.

I love to read in that field, for both personal enjoyment and for inspiration. But I've discovered that *listening* to the right people talk about their true sexual experiences also provides a huge amount of both pleasure and motivation. I've been happily addicted to several erotic podcasts. One of them may soon be broadcasting some of my unpublished work; I'll let you know when that happens.

As partial payback for the inspiration I've received, I am pleased to endorse the following podcasts:

Sex Is Fun

Swingercast

Open Source Sex

Happy listening! But be warned: your ears - and mind - will soon be hooked!

Tags: erotica | nonfiction | podcasts | inspiration

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C Margery Kempe
Chastity Flame
2009.03.14 02:49:07
Modesty BlaiseI just turned in the contract for my first novel for Ravenous. It's called Chastity Flame and it's part of the Breathless line.  She's a secret government operative. I would say think James Bond: swanky international settings, glamourous lovers and high-flying lifestyles.  But the real inspiration for her name was Peter O'Donnell's Modesty Blaise.

Modesty Blaise came to life as a comic strip, then films and novels. As a child, she was a refugee and lost. She found a mentor in Lob, another refugee who took her under his wing and tutored her.  Modesty eventually rises to be the head of a crime network in Tangier.  After becoming incredibly wealthy, she retired to England with her right hand man, Willie Garvin.

It's there that the government persuades her to offer her services on their behalf and Modesty and Willie find a second career.  Often they help out people in need or returning folks from their old life of crime.

I love the 1966 movie with Monica Vitti, Terrence Stamp and the hilariously campy Dirk Bogarde. It didn't do well at the time—and didn't capture accurately O'Donnell's heroine, but it's a good fun film with terrific pop art sets and costumes.

Chastity Flame captures the film's sense of fun at time: she's always seeing the humorous side of some rather dark moments, but there's also exciting intrigue and a complicated plot involving computer hacking and the European economy.

Of course, there's also lot of hot adventures, too!  A secret op has to unwind somehow and Chastity finds all kinds of opportunities waiting for a gorgeous young woman with a spirit of adventure.  She's used to having a new lover every day—so what will happen when she runs into the one lover who won't let her go?  You'll have to wait and see!

Tags: Modesty Blaise | spies | suspense | inspiration

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Morgan James
Writing Advice: Don't Write
2009.03.02 00:29:59

“Write every day.” That’s something many writers tell others who want to write. “It doesn’t matter if what you put down sucks,” they say, “put it down anyway. It’s the only way to become a writer! Write. Write. Write!” That’s good advice. So is this: “Don’t write.”

I quit my day job to become a full time writer in 1994. Jumping into the full time writing fray was thrilling, liberating, and scary. Writing full time continues to be thrilling, liberating, and scary.

All this time later I’m still writing full time. Erotica. Horror. Historicals. Most days I spend hours upon hour at the computer, creating fictional adventures. Some steamy and graphically sexual. Some scary. Some set in the past. Some set in contemporary times.
Good fun, hard work. I write – a lot. I want to. I have to.

“Yep,” other writers might say, “That’s what she has to do. That’s what she’s gotta do. Don’t let a day go by. Write something everyday!”

But you know what I’ve discovered in all this time? Sometimes that old well runs low. And you have to fill it back up or you start scraping the bottom. What you come up with is thick mud and worm poop. You have to turn off the computer or lay aside the pen.

I took a vacation a couple weeks ago. Went to the beach with Mitch for five days. Stayed in an inexpensive motel on the oceanfront, one that was all the more inexpensive because it was off season. Ninth floor. Nonsmoking room. Balcony overlooking a pier and the great gray sea. I didn’t take a laptop. I didn’t take a legal pad, though I was going to. I was tempted, Lord don’cha know it. Instead, I just sucked up the vacation. I stood on the balcony to breathe in the frosty, salt-laced February air. I watched the people below on the boardwalk, pier, and sand, braving the chill in their coats and gloves, throwing sticks to dogs who leapt into the foamy waves to retrieve them. At daybreak I watched the orange slice of sun on the horizon, followed by several old men on the sand, waving their “treasure hunters” back and forth, looking for quarters and other valuable finds. One afternoon I watched a group of retarded people on a day’s trip with their counselor, sitting on boardwalk benches in matching wool caps, dutifully eating the sandwiches that had been brought in a wheeled cooler. I saw lovers buried deep against each other and against the wind, wandering past, unaware of the beauty around them, absorbed in the beauty that was their intimate connection. I observed the waves at high tide. The waves at low tide. The “Sand-Boni” leveling the sand soon after sunrise. Laughing gulls diving for leftovers. Herring gulls looking pissed and bored. Little sand pipers running around and just being cute. Pelicans in the sky. Dolphins embroidering the surface of the water.

Mitch and I also did our share of wandering. I took off my shoes and socks and rolled up my jeans to test the winter waves. We meandered through the closed-for-the-season amusement park, studying the graffiti, the old newspapers blown against wire fences, the boarded up concession stands. I stared up in horrified fascination (I have a major fear of heights)) at the “Skyscraper,” a 165-feet high, 65-mile an hour Ferris Wheel-type thing that seemed content to be left alone for the time being. Bought cool, kitchy souvenirs made of shells and glue at one of the few gift shops open. Then, I challenged one of my fears and climbed the wrought-iron spiral staircase to the top of the 200-year-old Old Cape Henry Lighthouse. For five days I watched, I touched, I smelled (yeah, okay, shut up), I tasted, and I listened. I took it all in. And I didn’t write a damned thing.

Now I’m home. My mind’s well is full again. I’m ready to get back to work. Not writing for those five days was inspiring and enjoyable. And I’ll attack my writing once again with inspiration and enjoyment.

If you are a writer or aspire to be one, write, write, write! But also, don’t forget to shut down the computer some times. Spend a day in a park or an afternoon in a bookstore. Do some gardening, go wandering, sit in a coffee shop and experience the world beyond the screen. Don’t tell yourself, “Okay, I’m here to get inspired for a story, a novel and I better come back with some ideas.” Remove yourself from urgency. Just be there. Just suck it in. Relax. Don’t fear a little time to let the well refill, for it will. And when it does, drink deeply. (But spit out any residual worm poop.)

Love,

Morgan

 



Tags: writing | relaxing | erotica | historical fiction | horror | vacation | advice | inspiration | rejuvenation

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C Margery Kempe
Beginnings and Endings
2009.02.28 22:12:50

I just finished a novel (a sexy espionage thriller) and experienced once more the incredible relief and joy that typing the very last words of a book brings.  There's such satisfaction in finally reaching that point after the long haul of chapters.  This was a relatively short process, about two months (some novels have taken me years), so the beginning was still fresh enough in my mind to feel a genuine sense of wonder that I had reached the end.

It's satisfying to have created something out of nothing.  That's the magic of writing.  

I find it especially gratifying when it's on the scale of a novel.  You're conscious of juggling narrative threads, characters and locations with manic energy throughout, so when you can finally set them all down neatly in a row, the sense of accomplishment is worth savouring—and celebrating.

But then comes the inevitable sadness; with luck, you get to enjoy the happiness for a while before you realise that the people with whom you've spent so much time have gone away.  You miss them.  They've been talking in your head for so long and now the voices are silent.  Fortunately, I will in all likelihood be seeing many of these characters again.

However, the only real solution is to find yourself typing those other words that have as much thrill as "The End"—those words, of course, are "Chapter One" or any other start up phrases. Think of the thrill inherent in the phrase "Once upon a time".

Begin again—writing is an endless cycle.  Stories only end so new ones can begin.  The magic is always waiting to be reborn.

 Make some magic today.



Tags: inspiration | composing | writing | magic | suspense | characters

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C Margery Kempe
Having a Laugh
2009.02.20 22:18:42
I had a lot of fun writing my 50s sci-fi film parody "Not Rocket Science" for the EXPERIMENTAL anthology.  When I saw the call for submissions I did what I usually do: close my eyes and see if an idea jumps immediately to mind.  What does "science" say to me, I mused.  The first thing to pop into my head was The Lost Skeleton of Cadavra, Larry Blamire's hilarious spoof of the same genre.  It's a dead-on and loving recreation of that era which seems equal parts romanticism about science and terror of the unknown coming from the skies.  One group of friends invented a drinking game around the movie, which requires you to take a sip every time anyone says "science." It's great fun. The film works so well because everyone is so completely deadpan. Brilliant!

This story made me realise how much I like to work humour into my stories, something I hadn't really thought about before.  Well, I always like to work humour into everything I do, but I didn't particularly think about the link between sex and laughter. I realised it's very important for me. My characters are always smiling and laughing as they make love.  Even when humour's not the point of the story, it works its way in.  My story "Love on a Spoon" for the wonderful AMBROSIA anthology has an off-hand reference to a very funny routine by dishy Irish comedian Dylan Moran.  Within the narrative, it shows the shared sense of humour between the two friends who are about to become lovers.

A lot of my stories are filled with references to classic British comedy, particularly my idol, Peter Cook whom Stephen Fry (a very witty man himself) called "the funniest man who ever drew breath." He was incredibly witty and devastatingly handsome, too.  With Dudley Moore (known over here mostly for Arthur and 10) he was part of the funniest duo on British tv. Unfortunately, not as many people know him in this country, apart from his appearance in The Princess Bride ("mawwiage!").  I'm not sure there's much of an overlap between Peter Cook fans and erotic romance fans, but you never know. There might be the occasional reader who gets a chuckle from the same things I do.

Tags: laughter | Peter Cook | humour | comedy | inspiration

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C Margery Kempe
Valentine's Day
2009.02.11 06:17:43
The lyf so short, the craft so long to lerne…

You know the drill: hearts, flowers, chocolates.  Great if you're in a relationship, but often not so great if you're not.  Many a lonely soul on Valentine's Day wonders: How did all this insanity get started?

Well, you can blame the Middle Ages for a lot of it. Sure, St. Valentine himself was a third century Roman martyr, clubbed to death and then beheaded (not a propitious start for the holiday, eh?).  The holiday itself, however, got going when Geoffrey Chaucer set his poem The Parliament of Fowls on that day.

The dreaming narrator, who's fallen asleep reading Scipio's book on dreaming (!), finds Scipio leading him through Venus' temple.  On the walls are the stories of suffering lovers and the acolytes of the goddess gather near.  The dreamer, who claims to be ignorant of the ways of love apart from what he's read, observes closely the birds who are gathered there before the noble goddess Nature herself:

For this was on seynt Valentynes day,
Whan every foul cometh ther to chese his make
("mate")

The birds are all arrayed by rank, each with its kind whether sparrow or duck or robin. They have to take turns, starting at the top. At the center of the gathering are three eagles vying for the hand of the most lovely eagle perched on Nature's own hand.  Each of the three tries to prove he is the most worthy.  They speak as if they were courtly lovers, another medieval tradition.

"Courtly Love" is where we get a lot of the exaggerated traditions of this holiday. A satirical work by Andreas Capellanus in the twelfth century, nonetheless proved popular in romances (originally a word that meant "adventures").  The Art of Courtly Love offers the following rules for lovers, some of which highlight the exaggerated nature of this trend for romance among the wealthy and mostly idle rich:

   1. Marriage is no real excuse for not loving.
   2. He who is not jealous cannot love.
   3. No one can be bound by a double love.
   4. It is well known that love is always increasing or decreasing.
   5. That which a lover takes against his will of his beloved has no relish.
   6. Boys do not love until they arrive at the age of maturity.
   7. When one lover dies, a widowhood of two years is required of the survivor.
   8. No one should be deprived of love without the very best of reasons.
   9. No one can love unless he is impelled by the persuasion of love.
  10. Love is always a stranger in the home of avarice.
  11. It is not proper to love any woman whom one should be ashamed to seek to marry.
  12. A true lover does not desire to embrace in love anyone except his beloved.
  13. When made public love rarely endures.
  14. The easy attainment of love makes it of little value; difficulty of attainment makes it prized.
  15. Every lover regularly turns pale in the presence of his beloved.
  16. When a lover suddenly catches sight of his beloved his heart palpitates.
  17. A new love puts to flight an old one.
  18. Good character alone makes any man worthy of love.
  19. If love diminishes, it quickly fails and rarely revives.
  20. A man in love is always apprehensive.
  21. Real jealousy always increases the feeling of love.
  22. Jealousy, and therefore love, are increased when one suspects his beloved.
  23. He whom the thought of love vexes, eats and sleeps very little.
  24. Every act of a lover ends with in the thought of his beloved.
  25. A true lover considers nothing good except what he thinks will please his beloved.
  26. Love can deny nothing to love.
  27. A lover can never have enough of the solaces of his beloved.
  28. A slight presumption causes a lover to suspect his beloved.
  29. A man who is vexed by too much passion usually does not love.
  30. A true lover is constantly and without intermission possessed by the thought of his beloved.
  31. Nothing forbids one woman being loved by two men or one man by two women.


How many would you agree to? How many seem neurotic? How many remain staples of romantic writing?

Oh, and what happened with the three eagles?  They all take so long trying to prove their worth that the other birds get impatient. When Nature asks them to choose the best, even they can't agree. Finally, she asks the female eagle to make her choice, but the blushing maiden asks for another year to make up her mind.  Nature agrees and the rest of the birds choose their mates in a noisy confusion and the dreamer wakes up, determined to read more about love.

Sometimes that's easier than braving the wild waters of the real thing!

Tags: love | inspiration | medieval | Middle Ages | courtly romance

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C Margery Kempe
Desire
2009.01.31 21:50:12
Writing erotica has a lot more acceptance now than it did in the past, but there are still a lot of hurdles we've yet to leap.  It might be 'acceptable' but it's often far from admired.  Like its sister genre, romance, it is often dismissed because of its largely female audience and creators, because something that's 'only' for women isn't 'universal' – yeah, right.

It's surprising that even in the mainstream there's still a discomfort linking women and desire.  Libby Brooks, writing in The Guardian about the new collection In Bed With… that features big name writers who nonetheless write under pseudonyms, notes:

It's a weary truism that it remains taboo for women to talk publicly about what turns them on. Another of the contributors, Joan Smith, says she has been fielding scandalised callers demanding to know why a feminist such as herself would even countenance writing erotica. For all the jocular gloss, the media's imperative to identify Lette's writers carries an unpleasant undercurrent of the scarlet letter.

Why is women's desire such a powerful thing that it must be hedged around with such careful language and subterfuge?  I suspect a large part of that comes from its mysteriousness.  The physiological questions about female desire remain puzzles to researchers who find it impossible to sort out the overlap between impulses from the body and those from culture.  In a recent New York Times Magazine piece, Dr. Meredith Chivers, who has spent long years working to understand the workings of female sexuality, continues to find it a perplexing problem:

“So many cultures have quite strict codes governing female sexuality,” she said. “If that sexuality is relatively passive, then why so many rules to control it? Why is it so frightening?” There was the implication, in her words, that she might never illuminate her subject because she could not even see it, that the data she and her colleagues collect might be deceptive, might represent only the creations of culture, and that her interpretations might be leading away from underlying truth. There was the intimation that, at its core, women’s sexuality might not be passive at all. There was the chance that the long history of fear might have buried the nature of women’s lust too deeply to unearth, to view.

That fear is still with us. We bear a heavy burden from cultural programming.  It affects us in ways we can't always realise or understand.  But taking up the task of writing our desires is a positive step.  The more we take control and own our erotic imaginings, the more that fear and negativity will fall away.

The one thing that is clear from Chivers' work is how important being desired is for women.  Tell us we're loved, but tell us we're sexy, too.  That's a guaranteed turn on. As we explore these notions in our stories, we become more sure of ourselves and better able to articulate our desires, and that's good for everyone.

Tags: desire | writing | inspiration | erotica | sexuality

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Inara Lavey
What If?...
2009.01.30 08:09:06

succubus-1

What if?  I used to dread those words.  I used to work with Jerry, an executive producer at a small (okay, minuscule) production company and those of us who did any writing for him knew that no good would come of any of this man's ideas, especially those prefaced with 'What if....' Of course, most of his 'what ifs' were along the lines of "What if...the galactic warriors have to pretend to be strippers on this alien planet?"  Or "What if...these women end up in a bar in the middle of a wet t-shirt contest and have to pretend to be contestants?" or "What if the only way these vampires can be killed is by a werewolf with a magic sword? and the werewolf is a stripper?"  Jerry was obsessed with strippers, big boobs (the kind that stood at attention even when their owner lay down), and bizarre plot devices that had no place in a movie not destined for straight-to-video release and a good shot at winning a Golden Turkey Award.  You learned to pick your battles and include at least one scene shot in a strip club, even if it was the medieval equivalent of a titty bar.  It was the way of things.  

But oh, did I learn to hate those two words.  'What if?'  

Then, a few months ago I had to come up with a story for Ravenous Rendezvous.  I’d been working on a novel based on a famous succubus and, while this particular plot line didn't lend itself to erotica, I found myself thinking those dreaded words:  What if...? What if a woman who has succubus in her family tree (sort of like a recessive gene) and can't have sex without draining her men dry (pun sort of intended) of life essence meets a man with incubus in HIS gene pool, with much the same problem?  And if they had sex...who would feed off of whom?  And what if the part-succubus worked in a STRIP club?  

Damn you, Jerry.  See what you did to me?  

So I wrote Succubusted and was pleased as anything when it ended up as the story of the day on December 1st, Ravenous's official launch date.  It stayed in the Top 10 for a while too, which made me very happy indeed.  So thank you to everyone who read it!   I got my first official review from the Romance Bureau of Investigation (if you haven't been to their site, check them out – their premise and review style is a hoot and I absolutely love them) and it was positive!  

Lesson learned?  The words 'what if' are not necessary bad unto themselves.  They can used for good instead of evil.  But if they're uttered by a semi-insane executive producer with a fixation for women with faux boobs and a predilection for pole dancing, not to mention character hooks like "What if...one of the characters is obsessed with vitamins?"

Run away.  Very quickly.  






Tags: succubus | succubusted | bad movies | inspiration | romance bureau of investigation

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C Margery Kempe
Community
2009.01.25 20:49:57

It's Virginia Woolf's birthday today.  You may tend to think of the resigned suicide portrayed in The Hours, but she was an innovative writer with a good sense of humour and an ambition to write the kind of stories that fired her imagination.

While troubled and struggling for much of her life, Woolf survived longer than she might have done because she had a community of other writers and creators who gave her inspiration and support.  Without that safety net, Woolf probably would have given in to despair even sooner.  She was able to complete a number of fascinating and ground-breaking works before she took that final walk to the river.

Woolf wrote, "Some people go to priests; others to poetry; I to my friends."

Woolf reminds me of the importance of community for writers.  Our work is solitary.  It requires a lot of hours simply putting pen to paper or fingers to keyboard.  While you can do that anywhere—in your office or out in a coffee shop—the process is one that requires spending much of your day inside your own head where the movies unfurl and you try to capture every nuance (or where you kick the projector to get it running again).

That's why you need that community—people who understand that need for solitude, the difficulty of the process and the hunger to fill your head.  One of the best things about Ravenous Romance is that it has brought together a whole new community of writers.  There's a broad range here, from old hands who've been writing erotica for years, to people new to the genre and even folks who are publishing for the first time (yay you!).

Without fail, the other writers here have been supportive, cheerleading and generous with their knowledge and experience.  Just look at the blog entries here, where folks offer advice, tips and insight into the writing process.  Experienced writers model the way to promote their works without being overbearing, while new writers get to share their excitement and pleasure to a wider audience. I have new friends here, on Facebook, on Twitter and the ripples widen.

In other situations, I have seen writers overwhelmed by envy and so competitive as to grudge the least bit of success to others. There's none of that here.  We all know that the success of Ravenous Romance is a tide that raises all boats.  We spread the word not just to promote our own projects, but all our friends here, too.  We're an eclectic bunch and we have a publisher who celebrates it. How great is that?



Tags: community | classics | Virginia Woolf | inspiration | writing

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C Margery Kempe
Sexy Music
2009.01.19 22:02:10
"If music be the food of life, play on," urged Shakespeare's Duke Orsino, assuaging his sorrow over his thwarted love for Olivia with his court musicians.  Music affects our whole body whether we're conscious of it or not. Of course, many of us use that influence deliberately to fuel the muse.  When it comes to writing erotica, sexy music helps.  Whether we're trying to get ourselves into the mood to write or to find the heart of a character, music can provide a short cut to the answers.

I often find that a story gets attached to a certain singer or type of music.  My last novel had a lot of drumming infused through it, musicians like Gabrielle Roth, Layne Redmond and Glen Velez, whom the urban shaman at its center would have responded to quite readily.

When it comes to romance, there's a lot to choose from.  I recently wrote a story for the upcoming AMBROSIA anthology edited by Jesse Blair Kensington and I found that the best spark came from the matchless pipes of Etta James.  No one captures the exquisite pain of love and longing quite like James.  Whether it's the plaintive heartbreak of "All I Could Do Was Cry" or the sublime joy of "At Last," James urges you to share every emotion as her voice glides over the notes effortlessly.

I also like playful sexy music and one of the best in that realm is the amazing Tori Amos.  Her music explores the sensual from so many different angles, taking on a wild array of personas who explore love, sex, heartbreak and joy from completely different points of view.  I love the vulnerable and jaded narrator of "Leather" who sings, "I can scream as loud as your last one / but I can't claim innocence," and the urgent thrill of "Raspberry Swirl," with its admonition "if you want inside her, well / you better make her raspberry swirl."

Sometimes you want to capture that sense of longing, however, and there's few songs that capture the mood better than Lucinda Williams' "Right in Time."  The lyrics alone convey efficiently and explicitly that yearning for an absent lover, imagining his touch:

I take off my watch and my earrings
My bracelets and everything
Lie on my back and moan at the ceiling
Oh my baby


But it's really Williams' voice when she moans that line, "Oh my baby," that nails the feeling perfectly.  Her desire is tangible, the hunger practically leaps into your skin.  Great stuff – oh yeah!

Tags: music | inspiration | writing | Etta James | Tori Amos | Lucinda Williams

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C Margery Kempe
Inspiration: Anais Nin
2009.01.17 22:48:06
There are lots of great erotic classics that inspire me, from early practitioners like John Cleland and the Marquis de Sade, to more recent classic authors like Pauline Reage and Terry Southern.  But the one writer who inspires me most is Anais Nin.

I grew up in the Midwest in a family where touchy issues were avoided at all costs and silence was the rule of the day.  When I wanted to find out about something, I always turned to books—too embarrassed to admit to my friends just how ignorant I was about things like sex. Like most kids I knew, I did a lot of bluffing that I knew more than I did.

Delta of Venus was first. I can't remember anymore if I read her diaries first—they're so closely intertwined—but I do recall buying Delta because I was terrified that I would be stopped or carded or worse, that alarms would go off, blaring "she's buying a book about sex!"  But it was the local mall book chain, so the clerk just rang up the purchase without a second look (it probably helped that I was tall).

I devoured the book.  It was so specific! It was one thing to read feminist handbooks about sexuality and quite another to read Nin's passionate words about how it really felt.  I have written elsewhere about how she rescued me from relying on the ineptitude of teenage boys for experience and taught me to expect so much more.  She also made me want to write about those feelings and to try to capture them in words, something I kept to myself—or a select audience—for many years until Lori Perkins announced the launch of Ravenous Romance and suddenly the penny dropped.  Hey, somebody might want to read these stories just like I read Nin!

Nin had an interesting and complicated life that included incest and bigamy, which show up in her stories, where she often seems to be examining and healing the eruptions of life. The very first story in Delta features both incest and rape which shocked me, but didn't stop me. I hungered for the vicarious experiences both of her characters in the erotica and of her own life in the diaries and novels.  I loved how she used writing to transform herself from a banker's wife into an artist surrounded by like minds: writers, painters, dancers, filmmakers.

Nin not only gave me the power to understand and explore my own sexuality, she also taught me the power of writing to transform.  I had been raised to dream small, but her adventures helped me learn that I could expand my world if I were willing to dare to do so. I'm still learning that lesson, still finding roadblocks I create for myself. I have to remember her words:

"Dreams pass into the reality of action. From the actions stems the dream again; and this interdependence produces the highest form of living."

Thank you, Anais.

Tags: writing | inspiration | Anaïs Nin | erotic classics

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Lilah Rune
Where do I find my ideas?
2009.01.16 22:20:38

Where do I find my ideas? Everywhere!

 

I jump off on tangents, one after the other.

 

Just there, up above, I accidentally typed "w-e-r-e" instead of "w-h-e-r-e" in everywhere. (Of course I went back and fixed it.)

 

But my first thought wasn't were, as in was, past tense, we were, I was, but were, as in were-wolf, were-bear.

 

Pronounced "where". I guess that's why I typed it originally.

 

You might be wondering what this has to do with finding ideas.

 

So, the tangent hopping had me visualizing hopping from log, to log, to log.

 

Where might such a thing happen? Where are there logs? Who would be hopping from log to log? (Besides a frog...)

 

Perhaps a contest for the strongest, most agile, muscular man in a female dominated society.... Where women rule and men are just physical labor....

 

But what if a ruler in this land falls in love with a man, a were-man, who is really something else when he isn't with her?

 

What could he be?

 

What if she values his counsel, and actually heeded his advice, but she would be publicly hanged if found out?

 

But she cannot possibly give up his touch. His caresses. His tongue lashings.

 

Who would have such a tongue?

 

Perhaps a snake; a pronged tongue to lick her most sensitive places. And who wouldn't listen to counsel when being lavished this way?

 

Perhaps he is a spy to win back man's place in society.... To put women back in bondage... What if she is the lynch-pin to the undoing of all woman-kind?

 

This is starting to sound like an erotic version of the Garden of Eden. I just need an apple. Loads of stories used apples, even Snow White...

 

All that from a typo. And I don't even think there's much there...

 

yet....

 

Hmmmm. Typo.

 

Type O. I'm type O. I wonder if that would be the Cristal among vampires?

 

Excuse me, I have some tangents to follow....

 

Please join me in my virtual imagination by leaving a comment, question, or thought.

 

 



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C Margery Kempe
Time Management
2009.01.15 19:59:23
One of the best essays I've ever read about writing came from the amazing Octavia Butler.  Her piece, "Furor Scribendi" offered the following advice:

"First forget inspiration. Habit is more dependable.  Habit will sustain you whether you're inspired or not...Forget talent.  If you have it, fine.  Use it.  If you don't have it, it doesn't matter.  As habit is more dependable than inspiration, continued learning is more dependable than talent... Finally, don't worry about imagination. You have all the imagination you need...Persist."


Everyone thinks they might want to be a writer—I know, I teach creative writing—but the only ones who become writers are those who actually persist in the process.  It seems obvious, but people who dream of writing seldom consider the height of that hurdle. Writing takes time.  Revision takes time as well (and that's where the real magic happens). If you don't find the time, you will never write.

I always have students who can make magic with words, fill pages with interesting characters and sparkling dialogue.  As long as they have an assignment due, they turn out amazing work.  However, when I run into them after the semester's over and ask about their writing, they inevitably say, "I just don't have time."

Let me share my situation: I have a full time job. Under my own name, I write short stories, novels, plays and academic papers, as well as three blogs, one of which is a serial novel.  I write under a couple of pseudonyms as well (like this one).  People often seem to be amazed at my output, but it comes down to one thing: time management.

I don't watch a lot of television. I don't do much in the way of cleaning at home. I do think carefully about the structure of my day. I have to have play time built into it, but I give myself limits: "all right, half an hour on Facebook and then back to work."  Your schedule should never feel onerous, but you need to have one.  Don't forget rewards when you have finished something; reveling in that satisfaction makes it possible to return to work with new enthusiasm.

Deadlines are essential. If you don't have one given to you, make your own.  Put a calendar in your workspace and keep those dates religiously. Just ask yourself: do you want to be a writer?  Writers write, dreamers dream. Get to work and tell the stories only you can write. Your readers will thank you.


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